Living Life With Death As Your Advisor - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

Living Life With Death As Your Advisor - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

In this seventh episode we talk about a delicate theme: our mortality and the opportunity it gives us to live our lives with more richness and sense of purpose. Here I talk about a recent heart surgery I received and what could’ve been my choices and their consequences, hence how we can prepare ourselves for this eventuality and take care of ourselves as that time grows closer.

Taking on Other People's Emotional Baggage - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

Taking on Other People's Emotional Baggage - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

In this fifth episode we deal with how we tend to take on other people’s emotional baggage, where this tendency comes from, why it leads us to choose certain professions and certain partners, how this influences our lives and how we can find healthier ways to be caregiving with those we love and work with, without taking on their discomfort.

How to Get Our Needs Met in Relationship - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

How to Get Our Needs Met in Relationship - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

In this second episode we talk about how to take care of one's needs in a relationship. We will talk about which needs we can ask the other person to meet and which we cannot, make distinctions between adult and child needs, explain how to notice when it is one rather than the other type of need that is asking to be met, talk about codependency, and more.

The Dark Night of the Soul - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

The Dark Night of the Soul - a conversation with Abdi Assadi

In this first episode we talk about the dark night of the soul, that particularly harrowing time in everyone's life where there seems to be no way out and we are filled with a sense of hopelessness. In those moments our faith in what we believe on a spiritual level can falter, but it can also be the beginning of a new way of living one's spirituality. We will talk about the dark night of the soul I experienced a decade ago, how I coped with it, how we are used to live our spirituality, what our beliefs are based on, how psychology and spirituality are intertwined in those moments, the role of our childhood ego and adolescent ego, control, false beliefs, and much more.